BBCNEWS — BBC News 20260920 113000 UTC 520 transcript segments Original Broadcaster Captioning (Enhanced) Data courtesy of The GDELT Project (https://www.gdeltproject.org/), from the Internet Archive TV News Archive. Machine transcription. Treat it as a searchable index of what was broadcast, not a verbatim quotation record. [00:00:00] Business on BBC News. Make the connection. [00:00:08] connection. MUSIC [00:00:15] Now on BBC News and Katy Bonner talks to a Kenyan mother of four [00:00:19] four about her struggles with postpartum [00:00:22] postpartum psychosis. The symptoms, symptoms, the stigma and her road [00:00:25] road to recovery focus on Africa. [00:00:28] Africa. The conversation. I believe [00:00:35] believe this baby is not mine. I I was, you know, given a different [00:00:39] different baby. Yeah at birth maybe [00:00:43] maybe she was switched at birth. birth. Someone told me, you know, [00:00:47] know, you are a psycho. How does does your husband deal with you? [00:00:49] you? Somebody said that to you? Yeah. Yeah. And I considered that a friend. [00:00:52] friend. I wasn't talking, I wasn't wasn't taking care of my baby. I [00:00:55] I wasn't taking a shower. I was not [00:00:57] not eating. I was not breastfeeding. breastfeeding. What was happening [00:01:01] happening to your baby at the time? [00:01:03] time? She was crying. I remember [00:01:06] remember she was struggling because because she was still breastfeeding, [00:01:09] breastfeeding, not yet winning. And And I was here. I [00:01:17] Here. I was not being able to [00:01:18] breastfeed. So over the past couple [00:01:22] couple of weeks there have been some some stories in the news which have [00:01:24] have put a spotlight on maternal [00:01:26] maternal mental health, in particular particular postpartum psychosis. [00:01:30] psychosis. In fact, one article recently [00:01:32] recently ran with the headline Postpartum [00:01:35] Postpartum psychosis is Rising. We We are not ready. Now, while there [00:01:39] there is little data for rates of [00:01:41] of maternal mental health disorders [00:01:43] disorders on the continent, the World World Health Organization says that [00:01:47] that almost 20% of women in developing [00:01:50] developing countries experience mental [00:01:53] mental disorders after childbirth, childbirth, primarily depression. [00:01:56] depression. But these days more women women are speaking out. So what's [00:01:59] what's it like to experience postpartum postpartum psychosis and what can [00:02:03] can be done to better support mothers? [00:02:06] mothers? I am Nkechi Ogbonna and [00:02:08] and this is Focus on Africa. The [00:02:10] The conversation I am joined by Chebet Chebet Birir here in the studio with [00:02:14] with me. She's a fellow journalist [00:02:16] journalist in Nairobi and she's a a mother of four children. Hey, thank [00:02:20] thank you so much for joining us. us. Thank you so much for inviting [00:02:23] inviting me to this very important important discussion. I'm doing well. well. How are you? I'm very well, [00:02:26] well, thank you. Nice to meet you. you. We're glad to have you. And [00:02:30] And from Johannesburg, South Africa [00:02:33] Africa we have perinatal psychiatrist psychiatrist Doctor Lavinia Lumu. [00:02:36] Lumu. Hello, doctor Lumu, how is is Joburg today? Hi. Thank you for [00:02:40] for inviting me. I'm Joburg is warming warming up. Oh fantastic. Thank you [00:02:44] you so much for joining us for this [00:02:48] this conversation. Now I'm going going to start with you. We're going [00:02:51] going to start talking about motherhood motherhood and mental health. But [00:02:54] But before we get into that, I just just wanted to know what your life [00:02:58] life was like before you became a [00:02:59] a mother. And if that was something [00:03:02] something you had always wanted to to be. OK. Yeah, of course I had [00:03:05] had always wanted to be a mother. mother. I'd say it's just the timing [00:03:09] timing of the time I was I became became a mother that was not in my [00:03:13] my plans. I had just, you know, cleared [00:03:16] cleared my campus waiting to graduate. graduate. And then I found out I [00:03:20] I was pregnant. But before that, [00:03:22] that, you know, life was pretty much [00:03:25] much OK as a student and as a girlfriend girlfriend to my boyfriend then who [00:03:29] who is now my husband. Oh, so it [00:03:31] it was a campus love. Yes. It was [00:03:34] was actually high school love high high school all the way back, all [00:03:37] all the way from high school. We We started as friends. And then just [00:03:40] just before I cleared campus, we [00:03:41] we started living together. And then, then, you know, things happened. [00:03:45] happened. As they say, the rest is [00:03:46] is history. I know three babies later, [00:03:49] later, three babies later. Or four [00:03:52] four rather. Yeah. Oh, fantastic. fantastic. But did you always want [00:03:56] want children? Because, you know, know, it's one thing to say I want [00:03:59] want to have a partner or I want want to, you know, build a life with [00:04:03] with someone. But did you always always want to have. Your own children? [00:04:05] children? Yes, yes. I always wanted wanted to have children. And like [00:04:08] like I said, it was only the timing [00:04:11] timing because the first time I got got pregnant I had, you know, we [00:04:14] we were not married, I had not graduated. graduated. So this means I didn't [00:04:17] didn't have a job. And he also was was young. So he also was just trying [00:04:21] trying to stabilise in his employment [00:04:24] employment and career. And so I found [00:04:26] found that the timing was a bit not [00:04:29] not as I expected for babies later [00:04:31] later for babies later. Yeah, I am am really great news, but I want [00:04:34] want you to talk to me about your your pregnancy journey, especially [00:04:38] especially your first pregnancy. pregnancy. Yeah, with all the things things you were dealing with, you [00:04:41] you had just finished school probably. probably. I don't know if you had [00:04:44] had other plans and other dreams. dreams. Like you said, the timing timing was a bit off. Yeah. Of course. [00:04:47] course. Talk to me about that pregnancy [00:04:49] pregnancy journey. What was it like? [00:04:51] like? It wasn't easy. I had to you you know, I had just graduated and [00:04:55] and after graduation it's internship. [00:04:57] internship. So I had to go through through internship as a pregnant [00:05:00] pregnant intern. Wow. And you can [00:05:03] can imagine it was quite OK. I mean, [00:05:07] mean, everyone was friendly and wondering [00:05:09] wondering if I'm OK to go to the the field and do assignments. When [00:05:13] When I was about eight months when [00:05:16] when it was now difficult, I my legs [00:05:17] legs were starting to swell and I [00:05:20] I had to take a break to just go go relax and wait for the arrival [00:05:24] arrival of the baby. Tell me about about the first time you noticed. [00:05:27] noticed. Look, something is off. [00:05:30] off. The first time I noticed something something was off I was actually [00:05:34] actually now a new mum. After delivery. delivery. The plan was that I stay [00:05:37] stay with my in-laws and then at at this particular time there was [00:05:41] was this sort of baby shower where where cousins come to see the baby. [00:05:44] baby. Now when the baby has already [00:05:47] already come and the first time I'm I'm not sure if I was noticing if [00:05:51] if I'm not OK, but I did that two two years later and you know, did [00:05:55] did an in retrospect, yeah. And it [00:05:59] it was after the party and I was [00:06:01] was it started with we call it mania [00:06:05] mania or I was raving talking too [00:06:06] too much. Unnecessary things and [00:06:10] and I didn't even realise that I [00:06:12] I was not OK. And then after that that it dipped and I was silent and [00:06:16] and I was not talking to anyone for [00:06:19] for so so several days, about four four days I wasn't talking, I wasn't [00:06:23] wasn't taking care of my baby. I I wasn't taking a shower. I was not [00:06:26] not eating. I was not breastfeeding. [00:06:29] breastfeeding. So that's actually [00:06:30] actually a crisis. As doctor Will [00:06:33] Will will tell you. And I had to [00:06:37] to be hospitalised. What was happening happening to your baby at the time? [00:06:40] time? She was crying, I remember, remember, but I also don't remember [00:06:44] remember having you know, I think think my family members just took took over and took care of, of the [00:06:48] the baby. Of course she was struggling [00:06:50] struggling because she was still still breastfeeding, not yet weaning. [00:06:53] weaning. And I was here. I was not not being able to breastfeed at some [00:06:57] some point she had to be given cow's [00:07:00] cow's milk at that age. It's not [00:07:02] not good for the baby's tummy. So So and then at some point they also [00:07:06] also need, you know, they had to [00:07:08] to do formula. And even in my culture, [00:07:11] culture, we do breastfeeding for [00:07:13] for six months exclusive. And for [00:07:15] for two years, you know, with supplementary [00:07:17] supplementary food. So she, I think [00:07:21] think she wasn't OK. She wasn't very [00:07:22] very OK. But my family members came [00:07:25] came in and did what they needed needed to do while I was hospitalised. [00:07:29] hospitalised. All right, let's pause pause there on the pregnancy journey. [00:07:32] journey. I want to bring. In [00:07:38] Want to bring in Doctor Lumu. At this point. Doctor Lumu, do you you think there are certain expectations [00:07:41] expectations that people have of of motherhood or new mothers in this [00:07:44] this case like Chabet being a mother? [00:07:46] mother? Everyone paints this picture picture that it's, you know, the [00:07:50] the happiest time of your life. It's [00:07:53] It's going to be beautiful. And Doctor [00:07:55] Doctor Lumu, do you think that these [00:07:58] these expectations have any impact impact on, on the mental health of [00:08:02] of the expectant mother? Oh most most definitely. They most definitely [00:08:05] definitely do. Already, if you are [00:08:09] are in a situation like Achebe's [00:08:12] Achebe's case where she is now having [00:08:14] having a baby out of wedlock, that's [00:08:17] that's stressful. And also not living [00:08:23] living up to those cultural or societal [00:08:26] societal expectations. And the problem [00:08:27] problem we have with stress and mental [00:08:31] mental health is that stress actually [00:08:33] actually increases the risk of mental [00:08:35] mental health and mental health disorders. [00:08:38] disorders. OK doctor Lumu let's pause [00:08:40] pause there before we go further further in the conversation. I just [00:08:43] just want to come back to Chabet. [00:08:46] Chabet. Now. When did you get the [00:08:49] the diagnosis to say OK, this is is postpartum psychosis. It took [00:08:52] took it took about two years actually [00:08:57] actually postpartum psychosis mostly mostly that is what Doctor Lumu will [00:09:00] will tell you is, is when you have [00:09:04] have bipolar disorder, you're predisposed [00:09:06] predisposed to it. I was not diagnosed [00:09:08] diagnosed with bipolar disorder and and I was not diagnosed with postpartum [00:09:12] postpartum psychosis. It [00:09:17] Psychosis. It came later. After. Now the first episode came came as postpartum psychosis and [00:09:20] and then later on it came. Now I I was, you know, my kids were grown. [00:09:23] grown. I think it was work stress [00:09:26] stress that actually drove me into into an episode. And that's how they [00:09:30] they concluded for bipolar. But now now for postpartum psychosis was [00:09:34] was two years after when it happened [00:09:37] happened with now two, all of my my children actually, the only difference [00:09:41] difference is that the subsequent [00:09:42] subsequent ones were less severe [00:09:45] severe than the first one. OK, so [00:09:47] so it takes time for a diagnosis diagnosis to be, you know, to be [00:09:51] be detected. Detected. Yeah. OK. [00:09:53] OK. Doctor Lumu is it common for [00:09:57] for women to experience? Mental health [00:10:00] health breakdowns. You know, during [00:10:03] during or after pregnancies. So women [00:10:05] women are more prone to having a [00:10:08] a mental illness around the time [00:10:10] time of pregnancy and delivery. And [00:10:12] And this is mainly centred around around the fact that, you know, when [00:10:16] when we are pregnant, we have these these pregnancy hormones which shoot [00:10:20] shoot up and what tends to happen [00:10:22] happen is during delivery after birth, [00:10:24] birth, that sudden drop in those [00:10:26] those pregnancy hormones predisposes [00:10:30] predisposes women to mental illness. illness. Maybe there's an undiagnosed [00:10:33] undiagnosed mental illness, as is [00:10:35] is the case with Chabet. What happens [00:10:39] happens with bipolar disorder, which [00:10:41] which is a mood disorder? Often the [00:10:43] the first diagnosis is made in the [00:10:46] the postpartum period where women [00:10:48] women can present with a severe postpartum [00:10:52] postpartum depression or like in [00:10:53] in Tibet's case a postpartum psychosis. [00:10:57] psychosis. Postpartum psychosis. psychosis. Now, for some who may may not understand or have never [00:11:01] never heard of it before, what is [00:11:03] is it? What are the common symptoms [00:11:05] symptoms and how do people get diagnosed? [00:11:08] diagnosed? So postpartum psychosis [00:11:11] psychosis is very rare. Actually, [00:11:14] Actually, most people would get other [00:11:16] other mental health related conditions [00:11:19] conditions like depression is most [00:11:21] most common in the postpartum period [00:11:23] period and anxiety. But postpartum [00:11:27] postpartum psychosis affects 1% of [00:11:30] of people. So it's very rare but [00:11:32] but very serious. It's a very severe [00:11:35] severe form of mental health related [00:11:38] related condition and why it is, [00:11:41] is, is because psychosis results [00:11:44] results in a person not really being [00:11:48] being in touch with reality. The [00:11:50] The brain has an overshoot or an [00:11:53] an excess production of a certain [00:11:55] certain brain hormone or neurotransmitter [00:11:57] neurotransmitter that we call dopamine. [00:12:00] dopamine. And this excess results [00:12:03] results in an altered state of mind [00:12:06] mind where the person might experience [00:12:08] experience what we call delusions, [00:12:11] delusions, which is an unusual, strange [00:12:14] strange belief system. No one can [00:12:17] can control it. You can't control control it. You can't snap out of [00:12:21] of it. You can't, you know, just just tell the mother, go rest. You'll [00:12:25] You'll be fine. It's important that [00:12:27] that the mother gets help early. [00:12:30] early. But what is distressing for [00:12:31] for most people who go through postpartum [00:12:36] postpartum psychosis is the hallucinations hallucinations where there are visual [00:12:39] visual hallucinations. So the person [00:12:43] person might see things or hear things [00:12:46] things that are actually not there [00:12:47] there in the form of voices. This [00:12:51] This can be quite distressing for [00:12:53] for the patient and is quite an a [00:12:56] a very serious form of mental illness [00:12:59] illness which would require hospitalisation. [00:13:03] hospitalisation. OK, doctor Lumu, Lumu, I see you nodding quite a lot [00:13:05] lot to some of the things that Doctor Doctor Lumu has been saying and listing [00:13:08] listing out. Are there some of these these symptoms that you can identify [00:13:12] identify with? Actually all of the the symptoms that Doctor Lumu is [00:13:15] is talking about from delusions. delusions. So the, the detachment [00:13:19] detachment for me was that I believed believed this baby is not mine. I [00:13:22] I was, you know, given a different [00:13:25] different baby. Yeah. At birth, maybe [00:13:28] maybe she was switched at birth. [00:13:31] birth. And so I was detached from [00:13:33] from my baby thinking it's not my [00:13:35] my baby. I was also the hallucinations [00:13:38] hallucinations I had voices telling telling me I'm very bad mother. I [00:13:42] I don't deserve to live. And they [00:13:45] they were real to me at that time. time. That's why I can't. I could [00:13:49] could not tell whether I was OK or [00:13:50] or not. I was just out and out of [00:13:54] of touch with reality. So it happened [00:13:56] happened that also in terms of, you [00:14:01] you know, beliefs, like I've said, said, believing that my baby was [00:14:05] was not mine and also believing that that I was going to die, you know, [00:14:09] know, soon. I mean, even in hospital, [00:14:13] hospital, they were they had to do [00:14:15] do IV injections for me and I believed [00:14:17] believed that they wanted to kill kill me with that with the IV, although [00:14:21] although I wanted to die at that that time, I was suicidal actually. [00:14:24] actually. But there's that it's a a very thin line. You are suicidal, [00:14:27] suicidal, but you're afraid of death. death. So it is a very conflicting [00:14:31] conflicting state to be in. Were Were you still with your baby at at this point or no, at this point? [00:14:34] point? Now my baby is taken away [00:14:37] away from me but I remember being [00:14:40] being with her in hospital at some [00:14:43] some point with my mum. I don't remember remember everything in detail, but [00:14:47] but my family was taking care of of my baby most of the time. Beyond [00:14:50] Beyond the. Things that were going going through your mind, right? And [00:14:52] And the beliefs that you had, I want [00:14:55] want to know how you felt. Were you you feeling anything or were you [00:14:59] you absent minded as well? Absent [00:15:02] Absent minded, overwhelmed with guilt. [00:15:04] guilt. And shame that I was a bad [00:15:06] bad mother? You see now at this point [00:15:09] point you already. The voices are are too loud and you believe those [00:15:13] those voices that you're not a good good mother. And at this point I [00:15:17] I was not in employment, so I believed believed I can't take care of this [00:15:20] this baby, so I don't have the capacity. capacity. So then the delusions come [00:15:23] come so that I can, you know, find find a way out. At that point you [00:15:27] you believe that the best way out [00:15:30] out is death or, you know, there's there's a better life after death. [00:15:33] death. Talk me through the duration [00:15:37] duration of let's call it a breakdown [00:15:39] breakdown now from when you first first noticed that something was [00:15:42] was off and when you went to seek [00:15:45] seek help all the way to when you you started getting better, especially [00:15:48] especially for the. First for the the first child. So for the first [00:15:50] first child, I didn't know what I I was going through for about two [00:15:54] two years. Really? Yes. So I yes, [00:15:58] yes, it was a process. So the first [00:16:00] first time I was admitted I had to [00:16:02] to ask my mum and my uncle who was [00:16:05] was then there for me, what was what [00:16:07] what is my diagnosis? Because after after discharge there's a diagnosis [00:16:11] diagnosis and what was written there there was, you know, delusional suicidal [00:16:14] suicidal psychosis, psychotic. There There was no clear. So I had to pick [00:16:18] pick what I read and feed it to the the internet to be able to understand [00:16:22] understand what I was going through. through. And that took two years [00:16:25] years to properly just understand understand and then come out now [00:16:28] now to speak about it. And before before we talk about you speaking [00:16:32] speaking about it in those two years, years, what was your relationship [00:16:35] relationship with the baby after? after? After the first episode, there [00:16:39] there was also a second episode and [00:16:42] and my it was on and off when I whenever [00:16:44] whenever I was now depressed, I'd I'd find myself being detached from [00:16:48] from the baby and then the belief belief started coming again. But [00:16:51] But of course, with medication therapy [00:16:54] therapy and support from family they [00:16:58] they I. They brought me back to reality. [00:17:00] reality. And then of course I got [00:17:02] got a job. So you see this it's a [00:17:06] a 360 degree, you know, environmental [00:17:10] environmental I'd say. Yeah, it takes [00:17:12] takes it takes a lot of people and [00:17:16] and institutions and things for you [00:17:17] you to now come back to reality and [00:17:20] and functioning. Although some medication [00:17:22] medication would actually you know, [00:17:25] know, make me unproductive in a way way that I can't, I can't you sleep [00:17:29] sleep for longer hours than you're you're supposed to. So then you become [00:17:32] become quite unproductive at work. work. And that's why I had to work [00:17:35] work my way through because I need need to, you know, go about my daily [00:17:39] daily activities. I want us to touch touch on the fact that after this [00:17:43] this first episode with. The first first baby, you had other babies [00:17:47] babies subsequently. Yes. And yeah, [00:17:50] yeah, actually I went ahead to have [00:17:51] have two more. So it didn't discourage [00:17:55] discourage me in any way because because of the assurance, again, [00:17:59] again, from my partner and my family. family. Yeah. Because one would say, [00:18:02] say, you know, one. Would say, you you know, I've been through a lot. [00:18:04] lot. I want some of my friends. Actually Actually after I started coming out [00:18:08] out and speaking. I remember after after my first appearance on TV talking [00:18:12] talking about that and the feedback feedback was like, I don't have other [00:18:15] other children. Please just stop stop at that. It's too much on you. [00:18:19] you. But it happened that I actually actually got encouraged and went [00:18:22] went ahead to have two more babies [00:18:26] babies because your experience should [00:18:27] should not define your path for your [00:18:30] your life. And it just because it it happened the first time, it doesn't [00:18:34] doesn't mean it will happen again again the second time. Although as [00:18:36] as Doctor Lumu would say, you are [00:18:40] are predisposed but that actually actually makes you more aware and and alert. And that's what happened [00:18:43] happened with my family members. members. So that the second time time when it happened, it wasn't [00:18:47] wasn't that bad. I didn't even require require admission in hospital. I [00:18:51] I just needed to be removed from [00:18:53] from that environment where the triggers [00:18:55] triggers were and taken to a more [00:18:58] more safe and I mean secure for me [00:19:01] me and I healed within a very short short time. I went back to work. [00:19:04] work. OK. Yeah. All right. Let's Let's pause again and bring in. Doctor [00:19:08] Doctor Lumu. There's something Chabad [00:19:10] Chabad has said Doctor Lumu that [00:19:12] that she became predisposed. Right. [00:19:15] Right. Because it had the condition condition had happened before. She [00:19:18] She had had a previous episode. Is Is that something that is a constant [00:19:22] constant battle or it would go away away at some point? If you've had [00:19:26] had a previous history of a breakdown [00:19:30] breakdown or mental illness, you [00:19:32] you are at higher risk with subsequent [00:19:35] subsequent pregnancies. So I think, [00:19:37] think, you know, in an ideal setting [00:19:40] setting what should happen is screening. [00:19:43] screening. Mothers need to be screened screened for a history of mental [00:19:46] mental illness or a history of a [00:19:49] a previous postpartum psychosis. psychosis. And unfortunately, in [00:19:52] in most settings that doesn't happen [00:19:55] happen because when we screen, then then we're able to prepare and we [00:19:59] we are in a state now where the research [00:20:03] research is out there and we do start [00:20:06] start managing conditions in pregnancy. pregnancy. Right? Right. Doctor Lumu, [00:20:09] Lumu, sorry to cut you there. I, I, but I just want to find out on [00:20:13] on a wider scale when we hear things [00:20:16] things like this, first of all, there there is that common belief that [00:20:19] that people think it's a Western Western thing. You know, it's not [00:20:23] not known in Africa. There is that that like you say, expectation that [00:20:27] that a mother should automatically automatically love her baby and be [00:20:30] be nurturing. But how prevalent are [00:20:33] are these maternal mental health health conditions on the continent [00:20:37] continent and how accessible is help? [00:20:38] help? Actually. If we look at it [00:20:42] it globally in high income countries, countries, maternal mental health [00:20:46] health conditions, common ones such [00:20:48] such as depression and anxiety happen [00:20:53] happen in 1 in 5 women. So about [00:20:56] about 20% on the continent. And I'll I'll take what, for example, what's [00:21:00] what's happening in South Africa Africa with our research would which [00:21:03] which would translate to the rest [00:21:05] rest of the continent. It's up to [00:21:08] to 30, sometimes 40%, meaning three [00:21:12] three out of 10 or 4 out of ten or [00:21:15] or up to 1 in 3 women have a potential [00:21:20] potential common mental health condition, condition, such as depression or [00:21:23] or anxiety. The issue is because [00:21:27] because of stigma, because people [00:21:28] people are scared of mental illness. [00:21:31] illness. Culturally, people are scared [00:21:33] scared to speak up when it it becomes [00:21:36] becomes extreme. Like what Schibetta's [00:21:39] Schibetta's experienced that a woman [00:21:40] woman develops a post severe postpartum [00:21:44] postpartum psychosis. That's when when we pay attention and it doesn't [00:21:48] doesn't need to be that way when, when, as I've said, we have treatments [00:21:51] treatments I. Want to bring in a. [00:21:54] a. At this point in time when your [00:21:57] your family took your baby and you [00:21:59] you were getting help in the hospital. [00:22:02] hospital. Beyond that help, what [00:22:04] what else would you say you needed needed at that point? Was there something [00:22:07] something you needed that you were [00:22:09] were lacking? I wouldn't say that [00:22:12] that I needed God but at that point [00:22:16] point I was given. I was given medication, [00:22:18] medication, I was given psychosocial psychosocial support in terms of [00:22:22] of therapy. And my family also was, [00:22:24] was, was there for me. So at that that point, of course, it was recovery [00:22:27] recovery that I needed. I have been [00:22:30] been OK for over two years now without without medication and I live a normal [00:22:34] normal life. I'm employed, I have have my children, I take care of [00:22:38] of them appropriately. As a mother. mother. I am a wife. And you know, [00:22:41] know, it's possible to actually live [00:22:44] live your life normally after that that postpartum psychosis or even [00:22:47] even any mental health diagnosis. diagnosis. It's possible to live [00:22:50] live your life normally. However, However, follow instructions of those [00:22:54] those people around you, your family, family, the psychiatrist, the counsellor [00:22:58] counsellor go through everything everything as prescribed and then [00:23:01] then everything else will come as [00:23:04] as as individual at individual level. [00:23:06] level. Doctor Lumo spoke about, you [00:23:09] you know, stigma. Is that something something you experience maybe from [00:23:12] from the first episode or with subsequent [00:23:14] subsequent children? Some someone someone told me, you know, you are [00:23:18] are a psycho. How does your husband husband deal with you? Somebody said [00:23:20] said that to you. Yeah. And I considered [00:23:23] considered that a friend a very close close friend from high school. And [00:23:27] And then there's also the self stigma. stigma. So for me to come out and [00:23:30] and become a mental health advocate advocate or the mental health advocate [00:23:33] advocate that I am now, I had to to overcome the self stigma. Yeah. [00:23:37] Yeah. And just decide that, you know, know, this is for the sake of those [00:23:41] those who are going through the same same or worse. OK. Yes. Thank you [00:23:44] you so much. That was very wholesome. [00:23:48] wholesome. It was great to share share for you to share your experience [00:23:51] experience with us. And thank you [00:23:52] you so much, Doctor Lumu, for bringing [00:23:55] bringing in your expertise into this [00:23:58] this conversation. Spoke about the [00:24:01] the need to include mental health [00:24:05] health care in ante-natal clinics. clinics. Is that something you. I [00:24:08] I see you nodding. I want to believe believe that something you agree [00:24:12] agree with doctor Lumu thank you you so much. So much for sharing [00:24:16] sharing your expertise and that's [00:24:17] that's it honestly for focus on Africa, [00:24:20] Africa, the conversation. Please Please remember that this podcast [00:24:24] podcast content does not serve as as a replacement for professional [00:24:28] professional medical advice, diagnosis [00:24:31] diagnosis or treatment. 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